Well October and most of November came and went and with it Halloween and Norah’s 9th birthday. It has been a very sad and emotional time for me but also very peaceful and beautiful. My Pop whom I talk of often here in this space fell ill in the beginning of October. We celebrated his 89th birthday on October 15th and on Halloween we lost the greatest man there ever was. Words cannot express the loss and sadness I feel but also the deep love and appreciation I have for all that he has taught and given to me. He lives on in all of us, his family who he loved so dearly.
I am so lucky to have his beautiful work throughout my entire home as a reminder of how much he loved and cared for me. He is everywhere which makes it hard at times but so comforting.
I will miss his deep voice, his scent of sawdust and salve, his smooth hands, twinkly eyes and smile. I’ll miss making lunch for him, visiting him up in his office, our great conversations, and drawing up plans together for my next project.
I will forever have him in my heart and will never forget to say my prayers and will always strive to love my neighbor.
He was such a good, good man.
You can read more about him here.
susan says
Hi Amy – I’m so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing. I love the picture of him – he looks like such a sweet, happy man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alicia P. says
Oh . . . Amy. I’m so sorry to hear of your grandpa’s passing. I read his obituary at the link and he sounds like such an incredible person — wow. What an honor to know someone like that, let alone have him as a grandpa. My sincere condolences on your loss. I can see by his twinkling eyes and his beautiful work that he will be with you always. Peace be with you.
Laurie says
I’m so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a very special soul.
Sheila says
My deepest sympathies to you. October 29th we also lost a loved one. baby Moe died after 46 days of life….he leaves behind a twin brother, two year old brother and loving parents….my son and his wife. Cherish your memories.
joy says
Hi Amy, I had read about his passing via your instagram. Been checking this space and thinking of you since then. I am so sorry for your family’s loss. The one blessing is that you, and from the article you linked to, most of your family as well, were so appreciative of him and his love while he was living, showing him often how much you cared. That will be a comfort to you. I had only my grandmothers living while growing up, both into their mid-90s and with my mom’s mom, who passed away 3 years ago, I have a lot of regret that younger me didn’t show her MORE how much she’s influenced my life and love of family. My other grandmother is still living, at 98, and I have made this last year about appreciating her, and trying to show her, while she is still here with us. I’ve made it a priority for my daughters to see that as well. I know there is a hole in your heart at the loss of your Pop, but is very clear that he knows well how loved he was. I’m so glad you have shared your love of him with all of us through your blog. Again, so, so sorry for this loss.
Alicia A. says
I’m so sorry, Amy. He’s sounds truly wonderful. I’m thinking about you and your family.
Marci says
I am sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great man. What a privilege it is for you to be surrounded by his beautiful carpentry work and all the memories of growing up having him around!
Erin says
Aw, Amy. This brought tears to my eyes. I feel like I’ve gotten to know your Pop just from reading your posts about him. His genuine smile and twinkling eyes always made me smile – he sounds like a saint! Wish I’d known him… You’re a lucky lady to have had him with you since the beginning.
Hugs to all of you,
Love,
Erin
Mona Lisa says
Dear Amy and family,
I’m so very sorry for your loss. My heart is with you as you navigate a life without your Pop. Life will feel like a blur for some time. I wish you all peace and strength.
Thank you for sharing his story. The dearest of fellows. What a wonderful life he lived.
xo
Heather M says
So sorry for your loss. I’m so glad you were able to enjoy such a close relationship and many happy memories.